Father Alan Cox, retired Chaplain of Laval Catholic High School and Sacred Heart Middle School, celebrated Mass for Laurier Senior students performing in this year’s fashion show, offering words of wisdom and encouragement. As he sat with students on stage, he warned that their generation is entering a new phase of human history, and that it was crucial that they constantly reflect on themselves as individuals, to determine who they want to be. “It is very easy to touch skin, but more difficult to touch heart,” he stated, adding that in a time where gadgets and gizmos are continuously stripping us of our ability to communicate with one another, it is clear that we must construct strong beliefs and values for ourselves, to prevent loss of soul. “In reality you don’t need anything but your health, and ability to know right from wrong” he concluded.
(Photo: Alan De Souza)
Can anything in life and living ever really be Flawless?
Maybe not, but don't tell that to 160 young people of Laurier Senior High School's 2008 Show With Fashion
In the four decades (37 years, to be exact) spent as a teacher in two of Laval's senior high schools, I reveled in the pleasure and privilege of witnessing the unfolding of the talents of thousands of young people who sought to excel not only in academics but also in the many other facets of a complete education offered by caring adults who took it upon themselves to tap into the intellectual, artistic, and athletic resources of each and every young person placed in his or her care for about 200 hours a year.
In the care of professionals
It is in this context that I pronounce myself on the merits of many of the activities, projects, and programs I am asked to cover by the four high schools administered by the Sir Wilfrid Laurier School Board on Laval island – Laval Liberty High School, Laval Junior High School, Laurier Senior High School and Mother Teresa Junior High School.
I share this with you in an effort to express the profound respect I have for the countless professionals who dare to work in public schools in an age when they could all have justifiably taken a pass and gone into other less stressful, less demanding and less difficult pursuits. But to their credit they haven't and so now find themselves having to nurture the young people in their care beyond what is reasonable, whether in a classroom, an auditorium, a science lab, an art/music room, computer lab, gymnasium or athletic field.
And what, pray tell, you may ask is 'reasonable'? Well, try if you can, visualizing having to manage the whims, wishes, and wackiness of 160 teenagers between the ages of 14 and 18 who are the cast and crew of Laurier Senior High School's tenth anniversary Show With Fashion – Flawless.
"Ah, it's no big deal," says senior advisor Alan De Souza, creator of the 'show with fashion' concept of this annual production which puts as much emphasis on the 'show' aspect of the experience as it does on the 'fashion' it is expected to showcase on the stage of an auditorium which has not seen an empty seat for any of the thirty or so performances that have been an integral part of the activity program at Laurier Senior High School and its predecessor, Laval Catholic High School, since 1999.
Sacrifices and blessings
But make no mistake about it, Mr. De Souza's "no big deal" comment was made with tongue in cheek, in all humility, and out of respect for the enormous sacrifices made by everyone associated with the production, including the families of many of the performers and models whose lives are turned upside down for several months as sons, daughters, and siblings devote most of their spare time to the 'Show With Fashion'.
"Because I consider it a blessing," says Mr. De Souza, in answer to the question of "why do you do it"? "It's an annual gift to the school and to the community-at-large, both of which benefit from the efforts of these young people to provide moments of fun, fancy, and relief from the trials and tribulations of daily life.
But that’s not all that the ‘Show With Fashion’ provides. “It’s different things to different people, and although there are many common elements that link the members of the cast and crew, there are also a variety of individual experiences and lessons learned on an individual basis,” explains Mr. De Souza, whose responsibilities at Laurier Senior High School also include his daily work as Special Education Technician and Job Placement Officer. “Trust me”, he says, “for some of these young people this is a life saver. It gives them the opportunity to engage in a challenging but doable activity, and it enhances their self-esteem beyond what anyone can imagine. I see it, day in and day out, as they come to the auditorium after class to work on their moves, their choreography, and their ‘scenes’. Some of them even tell me over and over again that if it weren’t for the fashion show, they would have a hard time staying in school.
"They’re not all in the same boat, these young people, but many of them come from difficult family situations, with enormous challenges - some financial, others emotional or spiritual, and it’s not uncommon for us to deal with many problems some of these truly beautiful but somewhat troubled young people bring to us.”
Us in this case, are a handful of adults who make great personal sacrifices to render unto these 160 young people the opportunities they need to make a contribution to their school community and to the various charities the show supports with funds raised. The ‘us’ – are Mr. De Souza’s co-advisors: Domenic Di Stefano (Spiritual Animator at Laurier Senior High School) and Lina Varano (parent volunteer), both of whom have been integral parts of this exercise in applied learning for many years.
"We are a team," says Mr. De Souza, "and we function as such from beginning to end. It would not work any other way, and we are indebted to these two fine people and the countless other volunteers who are a part of the process," sums up the inimitable showman whose capacity to teach, shape, and form is documented by the first-class shows that grace the school's stage year after year. "And don't forget the support of teachers, administrators, and support staff without whose cooperation our task would be rendered much more difficult. Their contribution is priceless and substantial." Mr. De Souza adds.
A model to emulate
Surely, this kind of initiative should be looked at and replicated as often as possible by politicians and school administrators looking for more ways and means by which to keep young people in school, many of whom drop out of the system because they are simply not challenged with the kind of opportunities offered by an experience such as the show with fashion. Trust me, now, not everything is learned in class, in fact in my experience, as much was learned away from class as in, with students then coming back to their academic responsibilities with greater energy, enthusiasm, and motivation.
Of note, most of the proceeds from these annual projects are donated to various non-profit organizations, among which are the Canadian Breast Cancer Society, the Children's Wish Foundation, le Bon Dieu Dans La Rue, and several others. The school's activity program also benefits from some of the funds raised by the cast, crew, and advisors of the Laurier Senior High School 2008 Show With Fashion - (Flawless)